It’s not spaming because at best you are the one writing the unsolicited messages, but I don’t belie what you are doing counts as spaming either. You have a rea

It’s not spaming because at best you are the one writing the unsolicited messages, but I don’t belie what you are doing counts as spaming either. You have a reason to do what you are doing. I would still suggest that you stop writing them, especially about R/relationshiop. Honestly when it comes to anything to do with dating or politics you might just want to avoid reddit like the plague. You will only find pockets weirdos and radicals that will dump on you for breaching some sacred idea of theirs and that includes the moderators. Even if you would get advice it would most likely be bad and might make things worse for you. You can also forget about there being cultural considerations or considerations for any disabilities or problems you might have. I also wouldn’t go searching for dating or relationship advice on the internet in general. You will find advice tainted by either radical feminism, MGTOW, dating coaches or just people trying to spare your feelings from hard truth. Dating and relationships is a subject in counseling and psychology. It would probably be easier and less stressful to look up some books on the subject in a library (staying away from pop psychology) and talking with people you know and trust who have the types of relationships you want.