> force you to be their friend also Imagine going for a lunch with a group of coworkers, and then your boss joins you... because he is one of you, right? Nope

> force you to be their friend also Imagine going for a lunch with a group of coworkers, and then your boss joins you... because he is one of you, right? Nope. Lunch is a precious opportunity to complain about the work (including your boss) with people who understand what you are talking about. Now the workers are losing even this trivial right.