I think the problem is making people opt out of interacting with douchebags. Let people opt into it. It shouldn't be easier to be abusive than it is to avoid

I think the problem is making people opt out of interacting with douchebags. Let people opt into it. It shouldn't be easier to be abusive than it is to avoid an abuser. So long as that's the case, it's sort of enabling the shitty behavior.