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I'm 36 and def vibe with the "Some are having existential crises" comment. Sometimes I wanna learn how to fly a plane. Sometimes I wanna jump into infosec or ma

I'm 36 and def vibe with the "Some are having existential crises" comment. Sometimes I wanna learn how to fly a plane. Sometimes I wanna jump into infosec or machine learning. I'm still passionate about the aspects of dev I was 5 years ago, but I've seen the patterns roll around so many times, I wonder if the things I care about actually matter than much. So like any good solution without a problem, I don't know if I have meaning in that sense...

captainredbeard 5y ago
> Sometimes I wanna learn how to fly a plane Do it! Earning your private license usually costs between $6k and $12k, typically, and you can get started with just a discovery flight for a small amount.
xx__yy 5y ago
I'm a 42-YO Dev and a very late bloomer (start of career and learning). I'm definitely having an existential crisis, more so because I work at a startup. I'm quite certain I'm the oldest in the place, and I feel I stand out for the wrong reasons now. I've seen a lot of the same things repeating themselves, I find the work repetitive, and my memory is not what it used to be. The problems I'm solving are not "cool" anymore nor new. I also find I am less flexible - this is difficult when trying to reason with younger ppl in higher positions. I've built up years of knowledge and made many mistakes that I have learnt from, so naturally I want my next step/role to be closely related to software development as possible. I am not a good leader or manager, so my only option really is to move up into the design/arch or BA work, but both are hard to get into if you don't have experience. I had kids late, so the last half decade has flown and I've somewhat neglected my career. It's a weird situation to be in.
shell0x 5y ago
Infosec sounds cool indeed, except the part where you have to write up reports :)
- the_only_law 5y ago
  Security feels like one of those fields where you could have a very challenging, interesting fields if you’re very smart/driven, but otherwise sounds miserable. There are a few security domains I’ve been interested in but I don’t have the patience or ability for.
xvilka 5y ago
> Sometimes I wanna jump into infosec I don't recommend this. It's even more soul-crushing (or should I say "soul-crashing"?) industry than the dev.

captainredbeard 5y ago

> Sometimes I wanna learn how to fly a plane Do it! Earning your private license usually costs between $6k and $12k, typically, and you can get started with just a discovery flight for a small amount.

xx__yy 5y ago

I'm a 42-YO Dev and a very late bloomer (start of career and learning). I'm definitely having an existential crisis, more so because I work at a startup. I'm quite certain I'm the oldest in the place, and I feel I stand out for the wrong reasons now. I've seen a lot of the same things repeating themselves, I find the work repetitive, and my memory is not what it used to be. The problems I'm solving are not "cool" anymore nor new. I also find I am less flexible - this is difficult when trying to reason with younger ppl in higher positions. I've built up years of knowledge and made many mistakes that I have learnt from, so naturally I want my next step/role to be closely related to software development as possible. I am not a good leader or manager, so my only option really is to move up into the design/arch or BA work, but both are hard to get into if you don't have experience. I had kids late, so the last half decade has flown and I've somewhat neglected my career. It's a weird situation to be in.

shell0x 5y ago

Infosec sounds cool indeed, except the part where you have to write up reports :)

the_only_law 5y ago
Security feels like one of those fields where you could have a very challenging, interesting fields if you’re very smart/driven, but otherwise sounds miserable. There are a few security domains I’ve been interested in but I don’t have the patience or ability for.

xvilka 5y ago

> Sometimes I wanna jump into infosec I don't recommend this. It's even more soul-crushing (or should I say "soul-crashing"?) industry than the dev.