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You can change how you react to restrictions imposed by others. Many restrictions aren't as solid as you may be assuming. For example, you say that "you're not
by ericd 5y ago
You can change how you react to restrictions imposed by others. Many restrictions aren't as solid as you may be assuming. For example, you say that "you're not allowed to leave Philly", but many people don't even live in the same country as their families, in an effort to make more money and offer them a better standard of living. A less extreme version of that is living in a different city for some period and commuting home on weekends. And that should generally be a negotiation, not a diktat.
- giantg2 5y agoThose negotiations are off the table. Living apart is also something I'm not allowed to do.
- ericd 5y agoYou've decided you don't want to. And that's fine. But it's ultimately your decision.
- giantg2 5y agoIt's not that I don't want to do those things. It's that I don't want to be divorced even more.
- paulcole 5y agoWhat is on the table then? If that is unchangeable, what is in your control when it comes to a new job?