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Thanks for mentioning this effect; I sadly seem to primarily have friends in the 'can't gain weight no matter what they eat'-group, and if I try to keep up with

• scottlamb 5y ago
  Unless your friends have tape-worms, are suffering from untreated Celiac disease, or the like, [1] I doubt you're significantly more efficient at absorbing food energy than they are. It's a myth that people get overweight from being better than others at extracting energy from food. In a peer comment to yours, I gave a citation to that effect. I think basal metabolic rate can vary significantly. This might explain what you're observing in a more biologically plausible way. My (imperfect) understanding is that it's partly genetics and partly in your control via strength training. But I think you're doing yourself a disservice if you're discounting too easily the possibility that you're not comparing your eating and exercise with theirs accurately. How confident are you that you're actually eating no more calories than they are in a typical week? You might see them eat a huge amount when you're together, but maybe that's their "cheat" day, maybe they don't snack or drink alcohol as much as you do, etc. I think a lot of people are fooling themselves when comparing to others. [1] not a recommended weight loss plan; side effects can include stress fractures, scurvy, IBS, and on and on.