I like the idea of reserving a time to do nothing but grieve, thanks for sharing that. > You owe it to the deceased to minimize the time in your life where you

I like the idea of reserving a time to do nothing but grieve, thanks for sharing that. > You owe it to the deceased to minimize the time in your life where you aren't alive in a meaningful sense I don't agree with that. I don't think I "owe" them in any sense, just like I don't consider that they owe me anything.