Agreed, but I think what many critics of FB don't seem to realize is, the only solution to this that will really work, is for there not to be a social media net

Agreed, but I think what many critics of FB don't seem to realize is, the only solution to this that will really work, is for there not to be a social media network this big. Scale is its own problem. No executive will decide, "I'm too successful, let's split apart into dozens of smaller companies". The problem isn't how FB is run, it's what they are.