To people who actually want to better learn to apologize: find a way to apologize sincerely, without inserting yourself into the space receiving the apology, th

To people who actually want to better learn to apologize: find a way to apologize sincerely, without inserting yourself into the space receiving the apology, then take your “but” and apply what you learned from the experience to it. Your “but” matters to you, it might be important, it doesn’t matter to the person or people you harmed.