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it's not that Facebook is boring or interesting, it's that we're hostages [1]. If I would delete my Facebook, I would lose contact to a whole slew of people I'
by a_bonobo 5y ago
it's not that Facebook is boring or interesting, it's that we're hostages [1].
If I would delete my Facebook, I would lose contact to a whole slew of people I've encountered over the years, who I chat to once in a while over messenger, or I see that they've done something. It's bitter to cut these people out of my life.
(here the 'addict' image works again; former addicts often need to cut their drinking/drug buddies out of their life to stay clean, even though they may be real friends)
Stopping myspace, on the other hand, felt a bit less bitter, perhaps because that was more like an adolescent phase everyone grew out of.
[1] hostage term from @doctorow https://twitter.com/doctorow/status/1441107515865849866 https://twitter.com/doctorow/status/1441107515865849866
- spaetzleesser 5y agoI don’t think there really is a need to get rid of Facebook completely if you use it for useful things. If you don’t do much there you don’t feed them any information and or contribute to toxic discussions.