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Turns out the fastest way to make someone like you is to actually pay attention to them. Most people are so focused on what they’re going to say next that they

Turns out the fastest way to make someone like you is to actually pay attention to them. Most people are so focused on what they’re going to say next that they don’t listen fully, and people really like feeling like they’ve been heard.

agumonkey 5y ago
I have a little theory. The best way is to pay attention to the group. Not a person, not you, the group.
cottager2 5y ago
In certain circumstances, maybe. But most people also want to smile, laugh, and to be entertained by the conversation. Evoking those responses requires charisma.