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Good. But it's not hard to spot people who deliberately apply these techniques and it always makes me suspicious. Or maybe the ones I spot are just bad at their
by coenhyde 5y ago
Good. But it's not hard to spot people who deliberately apply these techniques and it always makes me suspicious. Or maybe the ones I spot are just bad at their craft.
- Loughla 5y agoYou probably spot the ones who are deliberately applying it every time. The ones who do it fluidly you think of as nice people. The problem is, even the people who do this stuff deliberately still get you to talk about yourself, so you can't help but like them a little. Therapists/Counselors are maybe the only people who can do this deliberately and not have it seem like they're moving through a checklist like a lizard wearing a people suit.
- cassepipe 5y agoI like to think of myself as someone nice, I apply those techniques without thinking much about it. Still I regularly encounter people who don't like nice people, and seem to think they are somewhat suspect.