If they want some toy or game, have them buy it with a 'money account' you both can keep track of. If they do chores, give them a little money and keep track on

If they want some toy or game, have them buy it with a 'money account' you both can keep track of. If they do chores, give them a little money and keep track on the account. I feel this simple principle teaches the work/reward/patience ethic, instead of instant gratification.