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I love working out. As much as I love it, it makes me tired and sometimes, even when I want to do more, I simply can't. Take the above example, and now apply i
by distantaidenn 5y ago
I love working out. As much as I love it, it makes me tired and sometimes, even when I want to do more, I simply can't.
Take the above example, and now apply it to human interaction. That's how it can be for introverts. It doesn't mean a person is shy or avoids social elements. It just means that it is absolutely draining. I can't speak for everyone, but for me, talking to another person or being out in public takes energy. I'm always trying to understand the situation, to not make any faux pas, to be engaged, and to enjoy -- and it's tiring. So I have my limits.
If I'm at a social event past my limit, I need to escape. I get tired, frustrated, and slight panic. Just get me home to re-energize and reflect.
My night time strolls allow me to control my exposure, while still allowing me to enjoy meeting new people.
If I have some free time, 9 times outta 10, I'm curled up with a good audio/book, playing chess, or gaming. But, I still enjoy and seek out human interaction. Hence my original comment to the post.