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It’s a little hard to believe all the men were gay. Is being gay a choice?

• ceejayoz 5y ago
  What I wear is a choice most of the time, but at my wedding, it was traditional to don a tuxedo, so so I did it. Being gay is about what you’re attracted to. Fucking a fleshlight doesn’t mean you’re attracted to them, after all.
  • gremloni 5y ago
    So then most of these mentors were not fucking the boys as the author claims.
    • ceejayoz 5y ago
      No, that doesn't logically follow. It means if they were, it wasn't necessarily about attraction. (We see this phenomenon in many rapists, incidentally.)
      • gremloni 5y ago
        I don’t see why a preference for domination/power imbalance doesn’t count as attraction. At that point, attraction to the same sex definitely counts as homosexuality.