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I've tried a couple of times to keep an actual paper journal. Every attempt fell flat after within the second or third week. Even online attempts with tools li
by Pyrodogg 15y ago
I've tried a couple of times to keep an actual paper journal. Every attempt fell flat after within the second or third week. Even online attempts with tools like Google Docs, didn't hold out.
Last year (8 days short of exact) I started using the OhLife.com service. Oh Life will email you everyday at a set time of your choosing. All you do is reply to the email with your entry, you can even add a photo, and they store it away.
The emails also come with excerpts from past entries. E.g. "Two weeks ago you wrote...". (You can turn this off) Finally, the service comes with export features when you care to leave.
If you don't feel like writing anything for the day, just delete the email. When you get the next one tomorrow you can pick right back up. I still don't hit every day but I consistently at least recap the events in a week.
You can probably directly correlate the length of my entries with how stressed out I am about something in my life. My reason for starting a journal is to slow down and reflect upon things when otherwise things are just too crazy. It helps both at the time of writing, and later if I care to read through things again with a clear mind. When you're stressed out you can do all manner of irrational things when you're not thinking things through clearly.
Since starting, I've also picked up on writing about the pleasant things in my life. E.g. fun nights out with my gf and friends, vacations, funny things at work. Even when things seem dull and boring I'll at least throw it into a weekly recap.
- trafficlight 15y agoI've been thinking about a "Has Done" List. I feel like I don't accomplish anything, but I know that isn't true. I'm hoping a visual reminder of what I've done will help. Oh Life looks like a good fit. I just signed up.
- mapster 15y agowould be good to enable a feature where you have to submit emails of at least one friend. when you fail to submit a daily entry, you friend gets an email to encourage you. knowing someone else will be pestered about your slacking will be just one more motivating factor. :)
- Pyrodogg 15y agoSo far, I think the daily emails are enough of a reminder. Even if you skip a day, it comes back the next automatically. With a paper journal, if you forget one day and it gets buried there is no external process that's reminding you to do it. (Except your then guilt ridden conscience) Also, I don't think the dynamic of having a friend involved would work to well. Why would I like to be bothered if my friend can't keep his commitment to write a journal. As soon as it becomes a habit and they don't fix it, I'm just going to mark it as spam.
- mapster 15y agoI think its key to bring the social aspect of the net in from rather a passive thing to an engaged thing. I certainly would sponsor a good friend to stay on track. It would likely motivate me to do the same so in would be reciprocal.