Certainly, Apple's crippling of PWAs and total control of browsers on their platform is a problem, but I've seen enough to know that what (web) devs really want

Certainly, Apple's crippling of PWAs and total control of browsers on their platform is a problem, but I've seen enough to know that what (web) devs really want is Chrome (or, more accurately, a monoculture). Whether it's Chromium in a browser (Chrome, Edge, Opera) or Chromium in an app shell (Electron), your stack is never good enough unless it's Chrome. Hopefully both Apple and Google have their worst aspects reined in at approximately the same time because otherwise we're just going to move the problem to the web layer.