I'm not saying they are inherently out to get you, my point is that they're advice is going to be based first on what works for them and not necessarily what be

I'm not saying they are inherently out to get you, my point is that they're advice is going to be based first on what works for them and not necessarily what best works for the person seeking advice. I suppose my larger point is that if a person's main source of stress is coming from the workplace then it's better to seek insight from sources external to the workplace.