And that's okay and expected - it would be unrealistic to expect people to be 100% ideal givers. In the parent post's quote "If you’re a giver, what are you lo

And that's okay and expected - it would be unrealistic to expect people to be 100% ideal givers. In the parent post's quote "If you’re a giver, what are you looking for?" the "If" is doing a lot of heavy lifting.