>you’re looking for a transaction And what is wrong with that? I help you with your shit and you help me with mine. It's not at the level of transactional qu

>you’re looking for a transaction And what is wrong with that? I help you with your shit and you help me with mine. It's not at the level of transactional quid pro quos. But at a basic level you can't have one giver and one taker. Eventually that breaks down into resentment.