Agreed. My wife and I are more likely to get frustrated with each other because we both are trying to take care of the others needs. We want the other person to

Agreed. My wife and I are more likely to get frustrated with each other because we both are trying to take care of the others needs. We want the other person to be more selfish because we so much want to take care of each other. On the spectrum of problems to have it’s a pretty minor one.