> There's a reason "you're not a real women" isn't an insult, but "you're not a real man" is. One thing I might note is that a lot of these kind of harmful soc

> There's a reason "you're not a real women" isn't an insult, but "you're not a real man" is. One thing I might note is that a lot of these kind of harmful social constructs were applied to women 100 years ago. Things as trivial as wearing trousers and as important as voting or working would have been considered "not womanlike" back then. What has changed that is ~100 years of the feminist movement, which made all of these and more acceptable for women. But there hasn't been and still isn't such a movement for men. And I would suggest that that's what we need.