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There are details missing from the story, and maybe the wife had raised the problems/divorce before and he ignored it. We don't know. But if you get home and t
by odshoifsdhfs 5y ago
There are details missing from the story, and maybe the wife had raised the problems/divorce before and he ignored it. We don't know.
But if you get home and the papers are on the table as he mentioned, that is past the point of talking with your spouse about your relationship, it is the time to get out, think straight and then head to a lawyer to make sure all is done right.
(coming from someone that has been divorced for 5 years and am in good terms with my ex-wife, we help each other all the time and talk about things/life regularly as friends)
- lexapro 5y ago>if you get home and the papers are on the table as he mentioned, that is past the point of talking with your spouse about your relationship I would argue that's the point where the talking should start (ideally there is also talking before it comes to that, of course).
- zw123456 5y agoNope. If the papers are out, better call Saul. There was plenty of talkie talk before that. Saul will tell you, once you've been served, No talking after that.
- zw123456 5y agoYes, most correct comment. It would be impossible to convey all side of each side. Most situations relationships involve a complex interchange of many emotions and other issues. There is of course now way to explain all that here. But that's wasn't the point, the point of the post was that I had a moment of clarity, of what was important to me and where my life was going. I got married because that is what society and family expected, I realized that was not for me. But ya, if divorce papers are on the table, time to smell the coffee, the fat lady is singing, turn out the lights, time to move on.