When you live at the edge, losing is only marginally less satisfying than winning, and winning is just something you do to keep going. Probably not someone you

When you live at the edge, losing is only marginally less satisfying than winning, and winning is just something you do to keep going. Probably not someone you want as a spouse, but that doesn't register. Imo, someone who takes risks with an eye to not taking risks anymore is not committed enough to be taking risk in the first place.