It's great to know you've had a date. What a difference a day makes. Here are my two cents. Get into good enough physical condition to look presentable for your

It's great to know you've had a date. What a difference a day makes. Here are my two cents. Get into good enough physical condition to look presentable for your body type in a tight shirt, not to impress or outdo anyone but just as a baseline demonstration that you're in charge of yourself. Get rid of any clothing you've had for more than five years and form a habit of being reasonably well groomed all the time, not just on dates. That's one of those habits like making your bed every day even if no one sees it but you. Attend social events where there are single women in abundance, which probably aren't paintball or LAN parties or whatever you're doing that's not working. Don't join a church just to get dates, but if you're already in one then be the guy who dishes out the lasagna at the next smorgasbord. Compared to real life meetups, dating sites and apps are a sucker's game because you're competing for attention with thousands of other guys and are way too easily dismissed. That's like trying to get a job by sending your CV through HR. Don't come crashing down again if this latest thing doesn't work out. You're still young and very eligible with a good career, so lose the desperate vibe and learn to affect an air of casual indifference in your approach. BTW, not having sex for too long can make your mind play tricks on you, so don't neglect it. If you start having self-destructive or fatalistic thoughts, consider an escort service as something like a defibrillator for your brain.