> The incentives of dating apps are all wrong for the daters. They want to maximize users, which means they want you to keep dating through the app forever. Fin

> The incentives of dating apps are all wrong for the daters. They want to maximize users, which means they want you to keep dating through the app forever. Finding you a great long term match is, from their perspective, losing a repeat customer. Ironically, OKCupid wrote about this exact issue, explaining why membership incentives were bad, etc. Then they were bought by Match.com, went to a membership based subscription model, and deleted that post.