Of course, I understand your hate for this concept - I would hate me too if I was doing this in the name of spam. I'm not. I'm simply searching for a way to in

Of course, I understand your hate for this concept - I would hate me too if I was doing this in the name of spam. I'm not. I'm simply searching for a way to indicate that a user is in my contact list before they've actually signed up and added data their profile. Maybe "seeding" is the wrong term.