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Hello, i think millions of people experience this, so nothing to be ashamed of. > I have no social life either. A big problem is that I very rarely meet women
by chefkoch 5y ago
Hello,
i think millions of people experience this, so nothing to be ashamed of.
> I have no social life either. A big problem is that I very rarely meet women, despite going out loads and trying my best to be social.
This seems like a contradiction.
I guess you have been told this countless times, but stop searching.
Do stuff you want to do, try differrent sports, travel, arts through meetups or clubs.
Join a charity.
If you do interesting stuff you have interesting stories to tell and that's what mskes you interesting. Be the man you want to be and the rest will hopefully come into place.
- Chernobog 5y agoCame here to say this myself. Do awesome stuff, and you will attract awesome people. You don't have to be the world's best in the thing you pursue either, to get noticed. For many hobbies and interests, there is a scene. And there are so many ways to contribute to that scene, such as helping arrange events or arranging your own. This will put you on the radar among a lot of people, and shine positive light on you.
- teatree 5y agoWhat are awesome stuff? (I am asking sincerely).
- chefkoch 5y agoAwesome doesn't mean you have to do extreme stuff. You are doing it for yourself, so no need to climb the Himalaya or swim from France to England If you are not into it. I recently thought about what i would like to do if i was single again without a family and it would be: - try sailing (an organized trip or learning with a course) - cycle through italy - take part in a cheap car rally - buy an old motorcycle and ride from europe to iran But everyone wants different things
- joshxyz 5y agoFully agree with this. The more personal a problem is.. the more common it is, lol.