Hi. I'm sorry you're going through this; it's a tough one. There's another "Ask HN" going on right now: "How do I get fit as a software engineer" [0]. My sugge

Hi. I'm sorry you're going through this; it's a tough one. There's another "Ask HN" going on right now: "How do I get fit as a software engineer" [0]. My suggestions would be to start working on yourself. Getting fit/physical exercise will immediately produce beneficial physical and emotional changes. When I started working out I immediately felt more confident (as an example). It will also get you out of your head a little bit. I don't have any dating advice, other than stop actively looking. Something about the smell of desperation is a turn off. Meet people organically. The pandemics is a difficult time to look for romance, best of luck. [0]: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=28561238 https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=28561238