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I have experience there. Person B wants to have a difficult conversation with Person A and wants to use NVC to keep the passion low and understanding high. Pe
by awb 5y ago
I have experience there.
Person B wants to have a difficult conversation with Person A and wants to use NVC to keep the passion low and understanding high.
Person B says how they feel using NVC.
Person A says “hey, just spit it out, talk to me like a normal person”
Person B “spits it out”
Person A gets angry and “gives it right back” to person B.
Both parties fight until 1 walks away.
In other words, if Person A is calm, NVC won’t trigger them. Person A usually wants Person B to drop NVC because they’re more comfortable fighting than they are finding a peaceful common understanding.