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Wow, you're right. I looked the term up out of curiosity and I would be legit offended if somebody talked to me like that, to the point where I'd absolutely lea
by collegeburner 5y ago
Wow, you're right. I looked the term up out of curiosity and I would be legit offended if somebody talked to me like that, to the point where I'd absolutely leave over it. I wonder how it's handled when this is somebody's preferred way to communicate but others absolutely hate it.
- magicalist 5y ago> I would be legit offended if somebody talked to me like that, to the point where I'd absolutely leave over it talked like what?
- awb 5y agoI have experience there. Person B wants to have a difficult conversation with Person A and wants to use NVC to keep the passion low and understanding high. Person B says how they feel using NVC. Person A says “hey, just spit it out, talk to me like a normal person” Person B “spits it out” Person A gets angry and “gives it right back” to person B. Both parties fight until 1 walks away. In other words, if Person A is calm, NVC won’t trigger them. Person A usually wants Person B to drop NVC because they’re more comfortable fighting than they are finding a peaceful common understanding.