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> Accepting a lowball offer, yet in your mind already deciding to renege on it, is dishonorable. Note: they also know that I won't be working at my best. And i
by mettamage 5y ago
> Accepting a lowball offer, yet in your mind already deciding to renege on it, is dishonorable.
Note: they also know that I won't be working at my best. And if they'd reason through what I would say, then they'd understand what that entails.
I need to pay my bills, so if that's the best I can get then I'll have to take it. I've had this situation happening after applying to jobs for 18 months (as a fresh CS grad).
> Everyone gets to choose whether they are a man or an animal.
We've always been animals, we're not different enough to warrant a different classification. Chimpanzees can reason as well, so can Octopuses, crows and dolphins. They have abilities that we don't have and vice versa. There are many animals that have risen above simple instincts. There are enough experiments to show that old world monkeys have ethics and morality just like we do (including obvious altruistic behavior).
Also, I feel that the comparison is futile. Focus on developing yourself. Who cares if you think you're better than a macaque. Are you better than who you were 2 years ago? Do you feel your life is better? Are you happier because you invest in yourself and your community. IMO those are the things that matter. Comparing ourselves to animals and then implicitly claim that they have fucked up ethics (since they have no honor) is un-nuanced at best.
- WalterBright 5y agoYou have a brain that is capable of transcending your base animal instincts. I know I struggle with my base animal instincts and try to be a better man. > I need to pay my bills, so if that's the best I can get then I'll have to take it. Nothing wrong with that. But then reneging on the agreement is dishonorable. You're not starving. > Comparing ourselves to animals and then implicitly claim that they have fucked up ethics (since they have no honor) is un-nuanced at best. I don't fault animals for not having ethics, because they are incapable of having ethics. I don't fault children for not having behaviors that are beyond their abilities. I fault men who behave like animals, because men are capable of better. BTW, people who work with monkeys have found, through bitter experience, that you cannot trust them. Statisticians have also determined that some apparently "altruistic" behavior in animals are statistically selfish, as in propagating their genes.