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> bringing up the fact that you're South Korean for some reason It's completely normal to qualify one's perspective, and often beneficial. in fact for people t

> bringing up the fact that you're South Korean for some reason It's completely normal to qualify one's perspective, and often beneficial. in fact for people to know whether your comment is an opinion, or based on some actual experience, knowledge, skill, etc, it adds value to the discussion. In the context of South Korean culture, it's absolutely useful to know the commenter is South Korean. If we're talking about tea, crumpets, or the rain, I might point out that I'm British.

seoulmetro 5y ago
If you were British, you would know where York is. It's not saying you don't know. It's saying that, this should be part of your knowledge based on you being British. I don't see how that's offensive.
- detaro 5y ago
  Because as others have already explained, that's not what that phrasing suggests. "If you were/you would" suggests that it's a purely theoretical perspective and thus strongly implies "you aren't". "If you were British..." and "If you are British..." have very different subtext.
  - seoulmetro 5y ago
    No they don't. No it doesn't.
- alias_neo 5y ago
  Nuance of the English language, but, "If you were British, you would know where York is", suggests I'm not British, and implies I don't know where York is. That specific form of the sentence has negative connotations and might be considered divisive in (British) English. It's essentially a challenge to my honesty, and had you said "if you are" rather than "if you were" it'd be a more amiable challenge, implying I should respond with proof that I know where York is, and not suggest I'm being dishonest. As I said, it's divisive, but to some may be considered offensive too. Just one word makes all of the difference. If you want to suggest I would know where York is by virtue of being British, you might say; "You will know where York is, because you're British" or "You must know where York is, you're British".
  - seoulmetro 5y ago
    No. It does not suggest that. I use British English and that's not at all what it means. Maybe to those that don't know how to use it correctly and are seeking emotional connotations. The statement is at most doubting whether you are British, but not dismissing or claiming the opposite. >but to some may be considered offensive too. It's offensive that someone might claim to be from somewhere and not understand a very common piece of knowledge from that place. Or at least I might want to claim it to be.

seoulmetro 5y ago

If you were British, you would know where York is. It's not saying you don't know. It's saying that, this should be part of your knowledge based on you being British. I don't see how that's offensive.

detaro 5y ago
Because as others have already explained, that's not what that phrasing suggests. "If you were/you would" suggests that it's a purely theoretical perspective and thus strongly implies "you aren't". "If you were British..." and "If you are British..." have very different subtext.
- seoulmetro 5y ago
  No they don't. No it doesn't.
alias_neo 5y ago
Nuance of the English language, but, "If you were British, you would know where York is", suggests I'm not British, and implies I don't know where York is. That specific form of the sentence has negative connotations and might be considered divisive in (British) English. It's essentially a challenge to my honesty, and had you said "if you are" rather than "if you were" it'd be a more amiable challenge, implying I should respond with proof that I know where York is, and not suggest I'm being dishonest. As I said, it's divisive, but to some may be considered offensive too. Just one word makes all of the difference. If you want to suggest I would know where York is by virtue of being British, you might say; "You will know where York is, because you're British" or "You must know where York is, you're British".
- seoulmetro 5y ago
  No. It does not suggest that. I use British English and that's not at all what it means. Maybe to those that don't know how to use it correctly and are seeking emotional connotations. The statement is at most doubting whether you are British, but not dismissing or claiming the opposite. >but to some may be considered offensive too. It's offensive that someone might claim to be from somewhere and not understand a very common piece of knowledge from that place. Or at least I might want to claim it to be.