Anything can 'potentially be net positive in ways you might not immediately recognize'. There is literally no event that description does not apply to. In many

Anything can 'potentially be net positive in ways you might not immediately recognize'. There is literally no event that description does not apply to. In many cases the 'negative experiences' are daily abuse. I myself had a horrible and painful time in high school, but listening to people of various backgrounds I concluded it's pretty much hit or miss. I can't generalize from my negative experience, but you can't generalize from your positive one either.