It sounds like you may be taking this personally, that is not my intent. I think you should realize that when someone expresses an experience people often time

It sounds like you may be taking this personally, that is not my intent. I think you should realize that when someone expresses an experience people often times read it as warning. And your experience sharing (as a warning to others) is not useful to the current state. And therefore could be considered damaging to other people's perspective without a counter "experience" being shared. I have my experience and the fact that it aligns perfectly with yours up until you stopped using PHP should be appreciated for what it is.