> this is just the reality of using an RDBMS It's the reality of Postgres, yes, but not all relational database. You mentioned SQL Server, which lets you lock

> this is just the reality of using an RDBMS It's the reality of Postgres, yes, but not all relational database. You mentioned SQL Server, which lets you lock in a query plan, specifically to cover the use case the parent described. When you have a Very Important frequently-run query that pulls from a monstrous table, it's nice to be able to sleep peacefully knowing the DB won't shit the bed because something completely unrelated changed someplace else in the database. One fair criticism of Postgres (and many other open source projects) is that they can be a little too religious about how the thing should work in an ideal world (in this case, SQL being as declarative as possible), sometimes to the detriment of practicality and of making things easier for the business.