> the etymology of the phrase is not clear that it pertains at all to Geisha's or "comfort women" It seems like a strong possibility to me. If someone told me

> the etymology of the phrase is not clear that it pertains at all to Geisha's or "comfort women" It seems like a strong possibility to me. If someone told me something I was saying offended them, I'd stop using it in their presence and would reconsider using it in general. It's just common courtesy and in this case it's easy to see how someone could interpret it as a sexualized phrase even if you didn't intend it that way. In short, that's not a hill worth dying on, online or IRL.