I met him, he’s very nice in person (at least over the course of a day, say). Kind, patient and genuinely interested in other people. So I doubt it is as simpl

I met him, he’s very nice in person (at least over the course of a day, say). Kind, patient and genuinely interested in other people. So I doubt it is as simple as he’s a horrible person. But clearly he’s an outlier in terms of demanding recognition.