> Online dating has changed this and you now can find decent sized dating pools anywhere you go This is a dubious claim, but I don't want to get into it, becau

> Online dating has changed this and you now can find decent sized dating pools anywhere you go This is a dubious claim, but I don't want to get into it, because I've debated this on HN ad nauseum. > Or you can date where you are, and then move somewhere cheap together What attractive, educated, socially-active woman in her 20s will want to move to the middle of nowhere once you get together or marry? I want to be around friends, family, alumni, and I'd wager so would she.