I have written pretty much every reference ever given to me, employment or academic. I send the request to them, they don't want to deal with it so they send me

I have written pretty much every reference ever given to me, employment or academic. I send the request to them, they don't want to deal with it so they send me the link/question form, I fill it out, and they send it in. And it turned out that the few I did not write were awful as they didn't put a lot of thought into them. They weren't negative, but just a generic copy/paste, even if they theoretically knew me well.