> Taking care of the kids is just how you chose to allot your time I was with you until this point. When you have kids, your time is not entirely your own anym

> Taking care of the kids is just how you chose to allot your time I was with you until this point. When you have kids, your time is not entirely your own anymore. You have duties and responsibilities to them. The "choice" was made 9 months or so before they were born, not in the moment.