> I’ve been called closed minded and a right wing asshole for saying that I would not date trans men, and that heterosexual intercourse will never be gay. You'

> I’ve been called closed minded and a right wing asshole for saying that I would not date trans men, and that heterosexual intercourse will never be gay. You're conflating two very different things here: "I would not do this", and "If someone does this they're not really gay". It feels like a motte-and-bailey fallacy to me.