Let me help, Someone gets into a new school, he finds someone relatable that someone introduces him to a group of people who faces the same or similar issues li

Let me help, Someone gets into a new school, he finds someone relatable that someone introduces him to a group of people who faces the same or similar issues like he does. They grow up and when financially independent go through surgeries, hormone therapy etc. and come out as LGBTQ. Should this be questionable? If yes then, How do the majority of kids who are interested in programming/computers become software engineers? should be too.