This has been my experience as well. I used to work between infra and development and I saw first hand a constant stream of clueless devs that don't read docume

This has been my experience as well. I used to work between infra and development and I saw first hand a constant stream of clueless devs that don't read documentation starting shit with infra and networking because they don't know what's wrong and just assumed it was the monkey-brained infra people who had something screwed up. The infra people were equally disdainful of the "stupid devs." Honestly, no one worked together effectively but the devs would just pull in a new framework or language, roll it out because some blog posts said it was cool, and then gripe at infra about perceived problems. Now I'm in a dev ops team (as a dev) and we spend a very large swath of our time---troubleshooting infra issues. It's all AWS and our problem now.