The tension between individual well-being and that of the peer group is the basic human condition. After all, your interests and that of the group compete for

The tension between individual well-being and that of the peer group is the basic human condition. After all, your interests and that of the group compete for limited resources. Individuals cannot calibrate the balance between these interests in their internal models without feedback from the social environment. Without communication, misunderstandings naturally occur because these models do not match reality well enough. Unbiased communication would be the solution if it were possible without negative consequences. But risk-free communication does not exist. Another point is the conviction that one's inner model is correct and does not need correction. Not realizing that the things in one's own head are all just models, including the idea of oneself, does not make it any easier. Especially when this realization is not wanted at all, in order to maintain the status quo. ... Putin made a mistake. A pupil corrected him. A school principal tried to social coherence https://www.b92.net/eng/news/world.php?nav_id=111609 https://www.b92.net/eng/news/world.php?nav_id=111609