> They should be shamed. On an emotional level, I can't help but agree. But.. frequently we have to choose between doing what feels good and doing what is effe

> They should be shamed. On an emotional level, I can't help but agree. But.. frequently we have to choose between doing what feels good and doing what is effective. Assuming, of course, that we even notice when there is a difference between the two (which, frankly, there very often is).