Given the byline on the piece, Bartleby, the appropriate response would seem to be "I prefer not to." From what I have seen, adults need agency, the ability to

Given the byline on the piece, Bartleby, the appropriate response would seem to be "I prefer not to." From what I have seen, adults need agency, the ability to choose for themselves what is best for themselves. Women don't need to be mansplained at.