> I think sharing this story reflects poorly on me also. Perhaps finding out somebody has been telling you lies so they could continue to participate isn't a gr

> I think sharing this story reflects poorly on me also. Perhaps finding out somebody has been telling you lies so they could continue to participate isn't a great sin. Perhaps I was simply too focused on getting shit done in impossible timeframes to realise not everybody can cope with that kind of strain. It's all yesterday now and little can be done about it, other than document it for posterity (and full disclosure) and move on. A self-aware essay that comes from the heart. Thank you for posting.