> > It’s objectively true that there are more obese people, however I don’t think it is helpful to focus on that fact. > Why? To discount that variable doesn't

> > It’s objectively true that there are more obese people, however I don’t think it is helpful to focus on that fact. > Why? To discount that variable doesn't make sense to me. You remind me of myself. Your observations remind me of what my natural observations tend to be. I’m originally from LA and think I’d agree with what you’ve written above. With that said, here’s a defense of the GP willfully ignoring data in this case (and possibly in general). It’s attractive to be positive. Not just to romantic partners, but to friends, coworkers, managers, reportees, strangers, etc. I think it’s fine to have standards for physical attractiveness, but they should be in line with what you can achieve. Similarly, I think positivity is attractive and negativity not so much, though I naturally think critically. Over time I’ve learned that others perceive me as a negative person. So erring on the side of positive might mean ignoring data. It might mean being blind to trends, but if it also means being happier, it’s how I would prefer to live.