One thing that's true about our brains is that even if we fail having not fully committed we will change our internal narrative to always say something like thi

One thing that's true about our brains is that even if we fail having not fully committed we will change our internal narrative to always say something like this: "That didn't work out but there's really nothing I could have done differently. This outcome turned out great because of X, Y, and Z anyway so who cares?"